First times are always great no matter what your doing…. your first job.. your first day in college and so on .. one of the most memorable times though is obviously when you first fall in love. Now for some its pretty difficult to remember theyre first time coz some jus dont remember when they had that thing for that one special person for the first time or the other lot are the self proclaimed ‘players’ who have forever lusted over the opposite sex. 

I for one have always considered the whole ‘wooing a girl around period’ most enjoyable and not from a guys point of view but from a girls point of view as well and although this may jus be my personal view i reckon as we grow up our priorities for liking a person and what we expect change. Whether its to do with serious relationships or to jus get laid coz everyone else is. For me Its the those 15-16 something times which are most memorable and not only for me i think even when i look at young kids that age.. apparently falling in love it stil evokes some great memories and jus gives that feel good vibe. 

So well what brought this whole thing to my mind … the other day I was taking a walk around surfers paradise and I saw a young couple about 16 holding hands and walking around lol… ( as if i didnt have enough to remind me of aziza already) .. but it also sorta put a smile on my face… and although I knew they would never get married (extreme apologies to anyone who is and have been together since they were 16) and probably wudnt last too long I bet they saw everything they ever wanted in eachother and its sweet in a way coz at that point of time more often then not ‘the future’ simply means the date your gonna be on the fillowing weekend or a trip to the arcade or pizza. 

The innocense of it is what really captivates me. I mean its not about how hot she is ( well may be it is but its not all plunging necklines and rising hemlines) may be its one of the first an last few times most guys appreciate a girls smile first time they see her… lol not saying they dont later.. or atleast thats what they say to the girls. Anyways, what interests me most is those awkward times before actually asking a girl out and whats even funnier is in India weve started calling it proposing to a girl.. lol though i can see why coz the first time your doing it, it is almost as much a big deal as proposing marriage. But im sure anybody reading this ought to remmeber the way things use to usually go atleast back in my day was when u liked someone you probably one of their friends to help get to know her and every step of the way was such a thrill. 

And thats I think the essence of what still makes that so special to me. When a simple smile from the person in concern makes your day, where you can wait hours on end around your phone to get one forwarded message which might or might have a hidden meaning of affection behind it.. lol and god does that give u the satisfaction of a lifetime. First dates have their own importance.. Now to all the rich freaks who had their sea side candle lit dinner with violins in the background bite me!!!.. lol but for most regular people its a movie or coffee or may be evn lunch.. and the most important thing that can make or break your date has got to be how and more importantly how much u have to talk about.. lol Coz i knw of a lotta people who had a million things to tell their girlfriends about… but soon realized sachin tendulkars last match score wasnt of a lot of importance to their dates.. but anyways for those previleged people who had the good first date.. the second step just gets more complicated.. 

But to get into that it would take more than jus one huge note to finish but frm then on its all about finding the right time to hold her hand or may be hug her and if ur lucky ur relationship might last long enough for you to have that magical first kiss.. But thats something id like to talk about in another time in another note.. but for anyone whose read this hope theyve thought of all the great times they had growing up and I hope to have brought a bit of a smile to their faces and given them some reason to may be remind them of the more innocent reasons to fall in love then the obvious ones we have now!!